Q: I'm about to get married. My parents help us to get some auspicious dates from Chinatown. How to be sure that such dates given are auspicious?
Ans: Marriage is a big occasion in our lives. It is the coming together of 2 person. No couples are always in perfect match. Therefore it is one of the important criteria to make use of an auspicious date to help. Although I'm not jumping to the conclusion that many couples who strain their relationships or separate/divorce each other within a year is definitely as a result from a wrong mismatch date, however, such as a good date can generate a condusive period for them.
Matching a date is not an easy job. In order to acheive certain outcome or effect, a good date need to be examine what it can do. Anyhow pick a good date from "Tong Shu", reading off base on animal signs or using certain methods from 玄空,紫白,斗首,董公,纳音 etc is just tip of the iceberg.
It is always wise not to put your marriage at the slightest jeopardy. And to ensure a first year smooth loving, sailing and memorable relationship, it is better to find more than one experience master to confirm the chosen date/s.
Also there is no such thing as a broken date totally cannot be used. On certain occasion and setup, such dates are even more powerful if properly put to use. (Pls do not DIY on this on your own)
Q: Why some friends and associates of mine made money from investments and stock market while I lost instead? Especially the recent recession has caused the shares to be an all time low, I bought and it went down further. I sold and it went up? Can you predict the stock market?
Ans: You are not the only one that ask me this question. It was a wise move generally to invest or buy shares when it was low. However, you did not take into consideration of a few factors:
1) House feng shui and bazi luck - When your house feng shui is not supporting your wealth, you'll find that either income is blocked or tend to lose the money very soon. If your bazi luck is not supporting, you'll find that you make many wrong decisions. Wealth seems to elude you. Opportunity also become lesser. The harder you try, the more you lose.
2) Individual calibre which is also in line with your bazi - When you don't possess the necessary skills and qualities to be an investor. So what are skills? They are the understanding and knowledge of the fundamentals and technicals of the underlying investment portfolio. If it is a stock, all the fundamentals means all the necessary related economies supporting or against it, whether being hedged, all the status of the stock's cash balance, its management, the person behind it, its projection and the market it dominates. On technicals, whether it was overbought, just retracing, oversold, hitting resistance, trends and the psychology of the market indicated through personalised technicals monitoring. (Not forgetting the particular stock or company's luck)
Then you take a good look at your own quality. Do you have the guts to play big? Are you greedy? Are you hopeful? Are you discipline? Are you easily fearful/ panic? Do you know how to manage your investment portfolio? Do you have faith in your knowledge and skills and last but not least, can you take stress? There are also many other important factors skills where only experts know and make the difference. They not only have the quality but also the house and personal luck to back them.
Yes, I can predict the stock market. However, if you don't have the luck, what's the point? (This means don't have the luck to get it or keep it)
Here is a sample story about belief and hopeful: In 1999, there was a cyclone predicted and the state/villages was warned. Despite, majority believed that was just another passing storm. After about 2 days later, more than 10000 lives were lost. There are always people who will somehow maintain theirs beliefs and refuse change.
Here is another story about greed and curiousity: There's a fish called "Who-am-I". One day he asked the master, " I've grown and am more capable, please let me swim in your pond." The master acceded to the request but not without giving a warning, "You are born from a protected fresh water enviroment where you are not expose to the harsh temperatures". "Who-am-I" swam happily and later was treated a few times for diseases, fungus and etc. Not long he made another request, "I've learnt enough through the sickness, can swim faster and its time I try the sea". I don't need to go on. You have the conclusion of the story.
Q: Is facial reading the same with bazi reading? Can it accurately predict events? I got a reading done by a fsm recently but not accurate at all.
When comes to predicting, mostly are the same, that is, to get results. Facial readings are base on observation of the face features. For learnt masters, they know well that they can't depend solely on facial readings to advise others. Why? This is because it can only serves as a guide.
Eg. In between the eyebrow if there's a mole (top of the nose bridge), it is suppose to result in an extra-marital or third party. There are many cases where it is not true.
Some schools taught that the two corners of the forehead (which is suppose to indicate 'travel") is high results in frequent travelling or outstation and certain job scopes etc. Many cases also prove that is not true.
There are schools that also taught that the ear if higher than the eyebrow are more profound thinkers and crave for knowledge. Again that is not true. Fsms should not just base on the teachings of your school or masters and be rigid in your interpretations. Facial readings can only serves as a guide and cannot totally be dependent as a tool to read.
Q:Why your fees high for the house audit/ office audit?
Some owners ask me this question. Firstly, I would like to assure you that if you are staying in HDB, fees are affordable. Unfortunately, the living standard has gone up and so there has been some slight adjustments. If you have been recommended by a friend, you'll know that I have sustained the same audit fees for a long time.
Those who are staying in Condos, landed or renting a office, let me give my explanation:
The living standard of Singapore is very high now. You can spend more than a million on properties and yet compare with a small fraction of audit fees/ difference. My fees are compatible with some of the market rates. Would you rather waste your money on feng shui items, well known fsm and yet unable to solve your problems or get a master who can resolve your house problems.
Frankly, there's nothing to compare. Eg, Having a health problem and spending thousands on specialist, is willingly given away. You may also consult a TCM yet you don't bargain. A master who can help minimise/ cure your this health issue, you want to compare the difference, very ironic right?
I often tell owners, please try another fsm where after he fails you, come back to me. Eg, for a two hundred dollars difference you saved, you may end up not only still having the feng shui problem, probably worsen but may also have to fork out another sum to find another master to resolve your problem. Hope you understand.
Over the years, I have missed many audits due to fees comparison. Some Condo/ landed owners asked for a discount. However, my explanation is simple: To be fair to all those who have consulted me before on the same fee, I cannot do any further reduction.
If a master can have fees "fluctuate", you may also like to ponder about the rest.
Comparing with many others, it is quite resonable for all cases.